Day 6: What not to say

When people talk to someone who has lost a child, they often don't know what to say.  In an effort to fill the awkward silence some pretty hurtful things come out of their mouths.  I tried not to be hurt by them, knowing that they were honestly trying to help but sometimes it still stung.  Here are some things that hurt, keep them in your minds and hearts the next time you enter into a conversation with someone like me, that they may hurt and cut to the bone if they come out of your mouth.